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Let your breast fall. Yes, you heard me right. Let it fall, and be comfortable with it.
This is a topic we don’t talk about enough, and that’s why so many of us, as women, have quietly carried low self-esteem. We were told the wrong things. We were fed lies.
Growing up, many of us were made to believe that when a woman’s breast is not standing or firm, it’s because she has been touched by someone, that she has had sex or done “too much.”
Some even say the only reason a woman’s breast will fall is because she has breastfed a baby.
But why didn’t they tell us the truth?
Why didn’t they tell us that growth happens in stages?
Why didn’t they tell us that age plays a role?
Why didn’t they tell us that body size, genes, hormones, and even a natural body chemical called estrogen can make the breast lose its firmness over time and that it’s completely normal?
Why didn’t they tell us that we all have different body types, and so we shouldn’t expect the same results?
Instead, we were taught to judge ourselves.
We were taught to look at a girl with firm breasts and say, “She must be a virgin.”
And to look at another girl with sagging breasts and assume she has “been around.”
We were not told that her body may just be maturing differently. That it may simply be her reality, and not a result of any sin or mistake.
Let me be clear…
This is not me promoting premarital sex.
This is not me saying you shouldn’t take care of your body.
This is me saying, let the whole truth be told.
Stop making young women feel ashamed of their bodies.
Stop pushing us into surgeries, risky creams, and fake lives because we feel “not enough.”
Because let’s be honest, a lot of women who go under the knife aren’t doing it for themselves.
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They’re doing it because of what society made them believe.
Because of what you said. Because of what they laughed at.
Not everyone has the strength to ignore those voices. Some believe them. And it changes their lives forever.
So if you’re a lady reading this… And your breast is falling, I want you to know:
You are not broken. You are not less. You are not ugly.
It could be your genes.
It could be age.
It could be hormones.
It could be growth.
And guess what?… All of those are okay.
You were not created to look like everyone else. And you don’t need to force yourself to.
To women with firm breasts, we celebrate you.
To women whose breasts are no longer firm, we celebrate you too.
We are all women, and we are all beautiful.
Stop h@ting your body.
Stop calling yourself names.
Stop comparing.
You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
Keep loving yourself. Keep being you. Keep being real.
The body you have is good enough. Just the way it is.
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Yours Inspiration,
Kathryn Esther Clement
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