Marriage is an institution where you earn a Certificate at the beginning of your education. It is an institution where you learn till death do you and spouse part.
The genesis of the vices we are experiencing in Nigeria today can be traced to the crises in the institution of marriage. If you failed to get it right in your first attempt you might not get it right again for life, hence it is important to go through the following to add honey to your marriage. It shall also serve as a roadmap for spinsters and bachelors who are planning to enter into the institution.
A happy marriage is a happy soul, a happy marriage is a happy environment, a happy marriage is a happy home, and a happy marriage is a happy and prosperous nation.
“INGREDIENTS TO HELP YOU GROW IN YOUR MARRIAGE ARE AS FOLLOWS:
You must have deep knowledge about God.
Learn to hear the voice of the Lord – with constant fellowship with him.
Play with each other like children – It creates good atmosphere in the house. This has no age barrier, that is, no matter how old is your marriage.
Shower together occasionally – it gives a sense of unity between two lovers.
Defend the interest of each other, fight for each other.
Pray and fast together
Train your children together either in commendation or condemnation.
Buy a surprise gift for each other.
Study each other very well.
Learn to engage in discussions NOT arguments – Discussion is for the wise while arguments is for the fools.
Keep your marriage from the third party.
Don’t keep secret from each other – Don’t be afraid to talk to each other.
Help each other in the house, especially domestic responsibilities.
Know when to touch each other sexually – you must have self-control.
Never go to bed angry with each other.
Always appear neat and smell good to your husband and wife.
Invest into your spouse – support your wife.
Be a role model to your children.
As a man, never raise your hand to beat your wife no matter how angry you may be or the offence she committed.
Be humble and broken.
Fight every anti-marriage forces together.”
– Pastor Kehinde Adegbolahan
SENIOR PASTOR, MOUNTAIN OF FIRE AND MIRACLES MINISTERIES (MFM), INTERNATIONAL HEADQUATERS, YABA, LAGOS.
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