Yoga Instructor and Therapist, Ese Walter, who revealed in 2013 that she had an affair with the Senior Pastor of the Commonwealth of Zion Assembly, Biodun Fatoyinbo, has reflected on how her life changed after the controversy.
The mother of three spoke on the development in a lengthy post shared via her Facebook page on Sunday 12 September 2022.
Walter recounted how her life turned around and how marriage didn’t even help issues.
“She said I’d soon be below his level (whatever that means).
“As much as I tried to act like her talk didn’t bother me, the words haunted me many times when I’d be in the kitchen making a meal or when I’m up at 2am tending to a newborn.
“The gossip blogs continued to drag the blog story wherever Ese Walter was mentioned, despite Ese Walter marrying husband and birthing babies.
“The marriage wasn’t what I thought it would be.
“I was a single-married woman and if I complained, it was, ‘at least you have your children to focus on.’
“I didn’t get married to an adult man to now focus on small children.
“I tried though.
“I focused on the little people, I learned about the early development of the brain, I learned about regulating one’s nervous system, I examined why I shout, why I doubt myself and how to manage my wounds so I don’t bleed on my children.
It will be recalled that in 2013, Walter revealed that she had a week-long affair with Fatoyinbo that left her scarred enough to abandon the church.
Though she admitted that she was not raped, Walter felt manipulated and abused by Fatoyinbo, who she said subsequently played mind games on her to keep the affair between them.
She noted that he impressed upon her the “Touch not my anointed” doctrine to keep the affair from becoming public knowledge.
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